This blog contains disturbing themes which may trigger traumatic memories for trauma survivors. Themes include (but may not be limited to):

  • Emotional, Physical and Sexual Abuse.
  • Panic/Anxiety Attacks.
  • PTSD Episodes

This blog is intended as a way for me to free these memories and fears from myself in order to heal, with an added hope that it may help others as well. Please read at your own risk.

14 thoughts on “Home”

  1. I am in total awe of your courage and strength and I will be following your blog. I’ve not experienced abuse myself but every other woman in my life – from friends to family has. It’s a subject that is very close to my heart. So, I just wanted to let you know that I’ll be rooting for you.

    • notyourvictim said:

      Thank you, it means so much to me to be able to get all of these memories out, so that I can make room for new ones- better ones!

  2. I have experienced abuse myself and it does take a lot of courage to express it in writing. You have to relive it in order to convey it realistically and it gets difficult. My hat is off to you. I’ll be following along myself.

  3. I wanted to let you know that I’m here and that soon I will be reading along. I’m still highly triggered, but I am working on it. Thank you again for reaching out to me.

    • notyourvictim said:

      Just be sure to take care of yourself, first and foremost, it’s better not to read something that will trigger you (I think.) Be well <3

  4. hello just seen your last – did you get out ?

  5. Hey love, are you still in italy?

    • notyourvictim said:

      Sadly, no. I would do just about anything to be able to move out there but it doesn’t look possible for a long while. I was in Florence during Palm Sunday weekend, it was insane with American tourists!

    • notyourvictim said:

      Thank you! I’ll try to get this up tomorrow! (My uterus is being too sad and lame today, I’m sure you understand)

  6. Stopcybercrimeonline said:

    Wishing you all the best in future and never experience violence again. Be careful in your sincere statements because its so many dishonest people nowadays on line. They called Cyberstalkers and they are searching through sincere/personal information of other bloggers then paint them self as victims and even can come back using your information to harass you later. It just happened to me and my family ! Blogger who was harassing hundreds of mommy bloggers in 2010 on WordPress.com painted herself as a “victim” and now as a “petitor veritatis” lurking trough people blogs and even leaving comments…. It’s like a joke …. An abuser and cyber predator calling herself a victim and pretend to protect women …. after years of harassing same women on line under disgusting web names like “chicken liver”, “peep on poop” or even better “mad cow of a woman” . Just wanted let you know that she is already visit your site and left a comment but be aware she can attack and use all your information against you. WordPress published in 2010 all about it. Now it looks like “Bloody” Chicken Liver back in full bloom but under a “sheep skin ” painting herself as a victim. Again wishing you all the best and please be careful not get hurt by other type of abuser …. A Cyberstalker!

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